How can a Fleshlight benefit you?

In the world of sex toys, fleshlights are relatively new, but have proved quite popular over the last few years.  They offer multiple benefits to the modern male, primarily to make masturbation that little bit more stimulating.  A Fleshlight from Shiva can make an ideal accessory to anyone’s sex life.  Here is the reason why.

The feel of fleshlights is one of the main reasons why they are so popular.  When a proper warming lubricant is applied to the inside of the opening, it is virtually indistinguishable from the feel of a real woman.  As well as being realistic, the materials used are also very durable, so you do not have to worry about wear and tear through overuse.

As with many other sex toys, there are a lot of different options with regards to choosing a fleshlight that is suitable for you.  Various different feels and textures can be purchased, and there is also the option to purchase one of the ‘endurance’ models.  These are designed so that the user can train to increase their sexual stamina.  There are also some models with unique features, such as the popular vibro range, which increase sexual stimulation through vibrations, much as a classic vibrator would.

What is more, there are also a variety of different products that are modelled on the actual vaginas, asses and mouths of some of the world’s most famous porn stars.  The Fleshlight Girls range is a perfect example of this, as each product has its own unique texture or feel according to the girl it was modelled after.  The Fleshjack Boys series offers the same experience but is designed to appeal to the tastes of gay men and women.

So, whether you are straight or gay, man or woman, a fleshlight offers you the chance to take your masturbatory experiences up a notch.

Posted in Sex Toys at May 7th, 2013. No Comments.

How to safely use butt plugs

Butt plugs remain a popular sex toy amongst couples all over the world, and are well worth trying at least once or twice.  After all, they are perfectly designed for anal stimulation.  Butt plugs – Shiva are a reputed brand, however they can be intimidating.  That is where this little guide on using them safely can help.

There are three main positions that are the most effective for inserting the plug.  On all fours (doggy style) is popular, as is lying on your back with a cushion underneath your bottom.   Finally, squatting is also quite frequently employed.   Finding out which one is right for you or your partner is simply a matter of experimentation, so get testing.

To begin, hold the plug at the base and the centre of the shaft, and insert it so that just the tip is inside you or your partner.  Once this has been done, the receiver will need to relax and get used to the sensation before the main shaft is placed further in.  This is normally the widest part of the plug, so you will need to be extremely gentle.  Needless to say, you should apply plenty of lubricant along the way to allow for easier insertion.

Once you have reached the stage where the main base of the shaft is inside you or your partner, you should then be comfortable enough for the rest of the plug to be inserted, with the flared ending resting at the entrance to the anus.  From this point on, you can enjoy the sensations that the butt plug – Shiva bought – gives you.

There is one final point to consider.  Although butt plugs can be kept inside for a few hours on occasion, for new users it is wise to take it out every half an hour or so to allow for more lubricant to be added.

Posted in Sex Toys at May 3rd, 2013. No Comments.

How to choose the right sex toy for you

As with many other things, choosing a sex toy is a matter of complete personal preference.  No two people react in the same way to sexual stimulation, so each one will respond better to a different toy.  That is why we have written this little guide on picking the right sex toys from Shiva for you.

One of the main issues for you to decide on is what sort of size you would like to go for.  A lot of first time buyers will purchase a smaller model, especially if they are planning to use it for penetration rather than just external stimulation.  If you want to go for both external and internal stimulation, then a medium phallus type design combined with a vibrate function could well be the ideal combination.

Power is another thing to consider.  Vibrators and other battery-operated toys vary hugely regarding the amount of power they can offer.  Smaller, cheaper models will only offer a slight buzzing, which might suit a beginner.  If, however, you know that you typically respond to more intense stimulation, then a more powerful, speed adjustable model might be more suitable.  Do not be embarrassed to ask the shop assistant if you are uncertain.

Shape, of course, is another issue that you will need to think about.  One of the reasons that the classic phallic shape remains so popular is that it remains very unthreatening.  That is not always the case!  Some more advance models (which are designed to stimulate multiple areas at the same time) look pretty intimidating if you are new to the area of sex aids.  In this case, a more conservative choice is probably the best idea initially, as you can always move onto the more advance models if you find the conventional toys ineffective.

Finally, ensure that you pick the texture and material that you find most pleasing.  The last thing you want is for the material used to give you the chills!

Posted in Sex Toys at April 21st, 2013. No Comments.

All about love beads

Love beads and love eggs are designed to provide both men and women with enhanced pleasure during foreplay.

Anal love beads are one of the oldest sex toys on the market and make the perfect starting point for the anal newbie.  If removed swiftly at the moment of orgasm, the experience is intensified.

The concept is simple: love beads start small and get larger the more you insert.  They are made from a sturdy but pliable, translucent, phthalate-free material, usually PVC.

All love beads have a ring or a handle at the end for easy removal, so you cannot over insert!

Both men and women can increase their pleasure in the bedroom with love beads, while women can tone pelvic muscles with love eggs or “Ben Wa” balls.

Love eggs are used to tighten the muscles of the vagina, aiding arousal for both partners.  It is recommended that women over 30 and those who have given birth start with a light kegel workout, while younger users try a more intense pelvic floor toning system, using the mini beads.

Posted in Sex Toys at March 29th, 2013. No Comments.

Sex toys for women

Women have been using a diverse range of sex toys for hundreds of years, both to relieve stress and sexual frustration as well as to learn more about their own bodies and how best to bring them sexual satisfaction and arousal.

In Imperial China, high class Geisha girls known for their mastery of the sexual arts used Ben Wa massage balls to keep their pelvic region tight and well-toned for their affluent and sometimes royal clients.

Not only used as masturbation devices for solo sex, many couples now use sex toys to bring the excitement back into a routine sex life.  Couples massagers can be immensely beneficial in getting things hot and steamy in the bedroom, with both partners able to enjoy an ecstatic climax.

While the best-known sex toy for women is the penis-shaped dildo and its battery-powered counterpart, the vibrator, other female sex toys include love beads and love eggs (also known as Ben Wa balls and Geisha balls).  Used not only to achieve sexual satisfaction and to help women discover the pleasures of orgasm, massage balls can also be used to alleviate tension and tone the kegel muscles.  Many women, especially those over 30 or who have undergone multiple childbirths, may find their pelvic floor muscles lack the tightness they had previously.

Despite their grand history, most women have long found admitting to using sex toys, or even talking about them openly, an embarrassing topic.  Now, however, erotic fiction and “mommy porn” has hit the mainstream, with writers such as “Fifty Shades” author EL James on the bestseller list.  James has been credited for boosting internet sales of sex toys for women.  The most popular ones come in gorgeous packaging and muted colours and, to many women, these are the ultimate in designer lifestyle products.

Posted in Sex Toys at March 15th, 2013. No Comments.

Sex Toys and Butt Plugs

Butt plugs are sex toys that can be inserted into the anus and rectum for sexual pleasure.

They are similar to a dildo but shorter, with a flanged end for easy removal and to prevent the butt plug from getting “lost” inside the anus.

A butt plug can help prepare its user for anal sex by stretching and relaxing the sphincter muscles to accept a penis or other penetrative device comfortably, either for solo pleasure or to enhance the bedroom experience with a partner.  The butt plug can be lubricated as desired.

It is not advisable to use a dildo anally, since it is possible for them to get stuck and even require medical extraction: hence the butt plug.

Butt plugs come in as many different colours, shapes, sizes and textures as any other type of dildo but they tend to be tulip-shaped, with a thin tip, wider in the middle and with a flared base that prevents them from entering too far.  Some come with a ring at the base for easy handling.

Ribbed butt plugs are used to increase sexual pleasure when moved in and out.

Butt plugs are usually – though not always – made from latex, which can be disinfected with boiling water.  Other materials include silicone, neoprene and even steel and glass – the latter two materials being used to produce an object of great beauty and sleek design, which can be chilled for even more heightened sensations.  Others add a vibrating action for an extra level of pleasure.

Posted in Sex Toys at February 22nd, 2013. No Comments.

Fleshlight toys for men

A fleshlight is a popular sex toy for men.  The name comes from the fact that to the unsuspecting eye, the outer casing is no different from an old school flashlight/torch.  Once opened up, however, the fleshlight provides the ultimate in male masturbation.

The inner sleeve is made from real feel superskin: tighten the inner sleeve for a tighter sensation, or loosen the end cap for a less intense experience.  The fleshlight promises instant satisfaction from the second you penetrate the tip of the fleshlight orifice.

Check out the Fleshlight Vibro with three vibrating bullets for a tighter experience, or the Fleshlight Training Unit to help you build up stamina and last longer during the real thing.

Why not choose your fantasy model with Fleshlight Girls, with the custom-moulded sleeve of your favourite adult film stars, including Jenna Haze.  For those more partial to a BJ, mouth-shaped orifices are also popular sellers.

The fleshlight is a quality adult sex toy for men, so remember to take special care of your new toy with an exclusive range of cleaning products and lubes.

Posted in Sex Toys at February 5th, 2013. No Comments.

Fleshlight vs. flashlight

Using the fleshlight is one of the most ingenious ways of pleasuring oneself.  Even the name of this sex toy sounds a lot of fun.  What is a fleshlight and how similar is it to a flashlight?

To an unsuspecting eye, there are no differences at all.  Both are elongated clubs that may be handled and held with one hand.  Those who know what a flashlight looks like get a very clear picture of how a fleshlight looks from a distance.  Upon closer scrutiny, however, the fleshlight reveals a very distinct difference – it has a vagina!

The fleshlight is a male masturbation toy.  The “vagina” is made up of flesh-like material that offers a sensation very much like the real thing.  Inserting one’s penis into a fleshlight feels very much like penetrating a real vagina, thanks to the Real Feel Superskin material used.

Masturbating has never been more pleasurable.  Fleshlights are available at any sex toys shop, including online stores such as Shiva Head Stop, the leading online sex shop in the U.K.  Shiva sells regular fleshlights as well as others that are named and moulded after popular porn stars such as Lisa Ann, Jenna Haze and Tera Patrick, among others.  Some fleshlights are moulded after the shape of a porn star’s mouth.

The regular guy on the street may never see or feel the vagina of a porn star but with especially moulded fleshlights, anyone can come awfully close to experiencing how a porn star’s vagina feels. 

Another similarity between the fleshlight and a flashlight is that they are sure to turn on anyone’s light.

Posted in Sex Toys at December 22nd, 2012. No Comments.

Sex toys for sexual sensations

Sex makes the world go round.  Without sex, there is no life, literally, nor tons of indescribable fleshly pleasures.  Yet, couples who have sex regularly may find copulating boring at times.  They may wish to experiment and consider playing around with toys. 

Some people think the use of sex toys is perverse, but those who know better understand that it is an exciting way of enhancing what is already there.  Why have regular fun when couples can have mind-blowing enjoyment?

Perhaps the most popular sex toys are vibrators, but there are definitely more out there.  Couples or individuals visiting sex shops for the first time will not believe what’s on the counters.  Here are a few that will definitely get people’s attention.

The fleshlight, for instance, looks like a regular flashlight but instead of a light at one end there are the lips of a vagina.  The skin walls of the “vagina” are so flesh-like that the sensation is almost like the real thing.  The fleshlight is the most popular male masturbation toy.

Another toy that is sure to shock a first-time shopper is the bondage gear.  Not many people realise that pleasure and pain go together.  Those who try it will definitely not regret the experience.  Bondage gears are perfect for couples who want to truly spice up their sexual experience. 

Then there is the very effective anal plug.  Sex toy shops sell anal lubes as well for those who wish to finally engage in indescribable anal pleasures.  Other popular sex toys are sex dolls, anal vibrators, G-spot vibrators, anal beads, erotic furniture, and so on.

Posted in Sex Toys at November 28th, 2012. No Comments.

Penis Pump

With prescription charges likely to rise on the NHS and Golden Root been discontinued, men need to find alternatives to help with erection issues that the above items would normally help with.

Well have you ever tried a penis pump or even thought of one? It increases the size of your penis via suction.

You get everything in the kit the pump comes with a PSI gauge so that you can keep an eye on things, a soft leather cock ring which will aid in keeping your erection and of course the plastic tube that you slide over your penis and that attaches to the air pump.

Prices vary wildly on the internet, but you need to remember that you pay for what you get, so just because it’s cheap it doesn’t mean it will last.

Although a penis pump may seem expensive it is a one off cost compare to buying viagra monthly

Posted in Sex Toys at July 5th, 2010. No Comments.